IS THIS NORMAL FOR A GUY? AND WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?

January 6th, 2009
  • my ex, most of the time, when his sexual mood is on the rise, he leaves me a message n says he's fantasizing about me n that he wishes i was w/ him. like for example, he's out of town till thursday for a project at work, he's like i wish u'r here at this very moment n we could be doing it. what does this mean? i'm the only girl that he talks to like that way as far as i know. does this mean he misses our good old times together? or he's just horny n he just wants me to help him out? i still have feelings for him n i'm not sure if he feels anything more than physical satisfaction towards me.


  • Its not you he misses, get my point - he's an ex for a reason - just delete the messages & get on with your life.


  • In this situation it's the way a sexual relationship starts, it may be different with other people. He's in all actuality not respecting you at all! Sounds like all he wants from you is SEX! He could get that almost anywhere, but when he's being this forward with you what's a person to think? All he wants is SEX & this can be gotten & there doesn't have to be love, like or whatever to get it! You don't even know if he truly likes you. He'll tell you whatever you like to hear just to get what he wants, so use a lot of self-care & consideration before all. It doesn't matter if you like him, what's more important in life if he can TRULY prove to you that he really, really loves YOU! How would he show you this & it's not in WORDS! How does he consider you when sex is not in the equation.
    Probably not so interested!
    Sounds pretty normal for a guy who is sexually oriented towards you. Do you want & are ready for sex? If so then go ahead & do it, then suffer the consequences & maybe you'll achieve the lowly goal of 'Slut"! This is what you are potentially looking towards, is it worth the effort?


  • he is probably a jerk who wants the sexual relationship without the commitment. If he really liked you, he wouldnt be your Ex. Move on, he isnt worth it.


  • It's normal. Kinda like foreplay! Keeping your relationship alive!


  • He is most probably jerking off while talking to you.


  • ask him







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